16 good age start dating
This is attributed to several factors such as exposure to all kinds of information in a technology-driven age.
“This is the dilemma of some parents, especially in this part of the world where traditional values frown against such practices for young teenagers.” Tochukwu said this is the more reason why parents should focus more on sex education to avoid the consequences of their children engaging in pre-marital sex.
“I don’t tolerate inappropriate behaviour; but I find hard to control my only daughter.
Ever since she turned 16, she thinks she is now old enough for such. I didn’t grow up that way; my parents never allowed me go out with boys, even when I turned 20.
“Since then, my daughter has refused speaking with me.
They usually hasten to inform me, “All his (her) friends are dating.” My quick answer is: When they’re married, and only with their spouse. Now back in the old days — the early 1980s — you met resistance for such a decision mainly from the children. You can’t wrap a moral bubble around them; they have to deal with life. A recent survey suggested that if a child has a first date between the ages of 11 and 13, he or she has a 90% probability of being sexually active during senior year in high school. Key factors to consider in granting any type of dating freedom are your child’s: • moral maturity • independence of thought • history of conduct in other social settings • strength of will • social judgment • choice of friends • responsibility toward schoolwork • respect for authority.They believe that at their age, children are aware about relationships and sex.“Studies have shown that in some parts of the world, like Europe and America, the average age for a teenager to start dating nowadays has dropped from 16 (from decades ago) to 13.The mother said she set ground rules for dating recently.“My daughter once flouted her curfew time by 15 minutes and I grounded her for a week.